Cock Rings, C-Rings and O-Rings: Popular Couples Sex Toys

April 1st, 2010 . 1 Comment »

Cock rings, also known as c-rings or o-rings, have evolved into a very popular couple’s sex toy. They are often bestsellers. C-Rings can be made from many types of material – leather, cloth, silicone, jelly, metal or even glass. Cock rings today are no longer a kinky sex toy for men with erectile dysfunction. They are a new, different and exciting way to experience love-making with the one you desire. The most popular types of cock rings for couples are made from hygienic silicone or another comfortable type of stretchy material. Vibrating cock rings and cock rings with clitoral stimulators were specifically designed to be sexually exciting for both partners. The most important role of any couple’s toy is to bring partners closer together.  

Clit Flicker With Wireless Stimulator

Clit Flicker With Wireless Stimulator

A cock ring is a circular device that wraps around the penis, penis and testicles or just the testicles, in some cases. It works by gently slowing down the flow of blood out of the penis by applying a light pressure to the surface blood vessels, keeping the penis more engorged. They are generally easy to put on, easy to remove and easy to clean.  Stretchy rings can be worn around the shaft only and should be put on when erect. They can be worn mid-shaft, at the base or you can stretch them around the whole package. Because of their flexibility, they are one-size-fits-all. So that eliminates the need for embarrassing measurements. If cock rings are used around the penis and the scrotum, it applies pressure to the perineum and moves the testicles into a little different position. That can give a pleasurable feeling and a slowing of ejaculation.  

So why would you want to use a c-ring? For him – it gives him a harder-feeling, longer-lasting erection.  It can delay ejaculation for many men, give them more satisfying orgasms and can also be used during sex with a partner or solo-play. For her – there is added pleasure from clitoral or labial stimulators, and that is a huge bonus. Vibration is even better for many women because the added stimulation is ideal for people that need that little extra clitoral sensation to achieve orgasm. You can use it with a partner or a vibrator.  

Dr Joel Kaplan Silicone Cock Ring - Dual (AKA Intimacy Enhancer)

Dr Joel Kaplan Silicone Cock Ring - Dual (AKA Intimacy Enhancer)

Because cock rings restrict blood flow in the highly sensitive part of the male anatomy, some caution needs to be exercised when using one. They should fit snugly and be tight enough to be effective. They should NOT cause discomfort or discoloration or leave marks on the skin. Those are indications that the ring is too tight. Also, don’t wear a c-ring in excess of 20-30 minutes at a time. Leave it off for 10 or 15 minutes then you can put it back on again. In addition, men shouldn’t use a cock ring if taking Viagra or other similar medication for erectile dysfunction, or, if he has a vascular disease or disorder.  For example, many diabetics have problems with their blood vessels and they shouldn’t use cock rings because it can cause additional problems.  

To put on a stretchy c-ring, all you have to do is stretch it wide, use the index finger of both hands, bring it underneath and behind the scrotum, if you choose, or just down to the base of the penis and let is slowly rest against the body. You can adjust the tension to bind the area securely so that it doesn’t snap, cause any discomfort or any other issues. It’s also okay to use more than one ring. Some people might want to put one at the base of the penis and one around the penis and testicles.  Others might want to put one at the base of the penis and one mid-shaft. If the ring is firmer, it should have lube added first before it is put on. The soft rings can be stretched, put on, and lube applied after they are put on.   

Berman Minerva Enhancement Ring

Berman Minerva Enhancement Ring

The underside of the head of the penis is very sensitive after orgasm for many men. To take a ring off, wait until the penis is somewhat flaccid, and add more lubricant before removal for more comfort.  Groom the hair around the base of the penis and scrotum to prevent the hair being pulled when the cock ring is removed.  To remove a metal ring, take note that you will not be able to remove it as fast as a stretchy ring.  You have to remember to relax and not panic if the ring is not able to be removed right away.  The best thing to do is to lie in a tub with cool water to allow the penis to cool off and shrink down.  Add more lube to aid in removal.  If the ring has been on for over 30 minutes and it has not been able to be removed, it is probably time to go to the emergency room.  Trust us, they have seen everything before, so this will not be new to them.  It is better to have a little embarrassment and get it removed then to go through life without an important part of your body.  

Technobeat Aggressor (AKA The Progressor)

Technobeat Aggressor (AKA The Progressor)

Persuading a partner to try a c-ring is like coaching them into anything else that is new.  It can be a little unsettling, but sexual changes can be even more-so because intimacy is loaded with emotion. Men might feel like the woman is trying to replace them, or their abilities aren’t enough, or their equipment isn’t satisfying their partner. Make sure that he is reassured that he is loved and is irreplaceable. The cock ring is just an enhancement to introduce some variety and spice to your love life.  For men that feel that sex aids are unnatural, and sex should not include anything but two bodies, point out that a c-ring is like any other sensual or sexual enhancement. Like lingerie, perfume, candlelight, or sexy movies. Pointing that out can provide a little extra perspective on your desire to introduce couple’s toys into your relationship.  

There are a variety of cock rings available – from simple donut-style rings to rings with multiple loops and ticklers, to vibrating rings with ticklers and multi-position vibrators. Many options for the beginning couple, to the more experienced users. So go enjoy!

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Masturbation with your Partner

March 23rd, 2010 . 1 Comment »

Once you and your partner have reached a level of intimacy that allows both of you to discuss masturbation, you may enjoy masturbating together. It may be accomplished a couple of different ways. Some people like to watch each other while they masturbate. Or, one partner prefers to watch the other while they masturbate.  Or, you may enjoy masturbating each other, generally using some massage techniques.  Communication in advance can be the best extra prop that you bring to the table. When you talk about your comforts and discomforts, what feels good, what accessories you’re accepting of, are you going to use lotions or potions or lubes, any other kinds of sexual accessories you’re going to bring – that should all be discussed upfront before you get to the bedroom. You always want to respect your partner’s wishes too. It’s good to have a safe word that you can use in case any of your sexual play gets out of hand, or if you feel frightened or scared or out of your comfort zone. And it’s best to use a word that doesn’t come up during love games. So that leaves out the words ‘yes’, ‘no’ and ‘stop’ because those should be part of your fun play. You’re going to try to think of something that would never come up in usual bedroom talk. We suggest using a word like ‘broccoli’ since that is a word that is rarely discussed in the heat of passion.  It definitely puts a stop on the whole love atmosphere so go for something like that. You don’t want to ruin the mood or move out of the love zone if you don’t have to, but, you know ‘broccoli’ will do that for most people.

Edible Soy Massage Candle

Edible Soy Massage Candle

For any new experimentations that you are going to do, be sure that you are creating a comfortable atmosphere and a sensually pleasing environment. Think of all the senses. Think of soft fabrics, romantic scents, candles, soft music, etc.  A product called Silky Sheets is a great product for this because it has pheromones and is available in lots of scents.  You can also try an edible sensual soy massage candle. They are fantastic for mutual massage and fun.  They are made of soy so they melt at a lower temperature so you can spoon them onto your partner or drip them directly on the skin and use them for sensual massage.  They are pheromone infused and are an exhilarating experience. Of course don’t forget to have some lubes handy too in case you get into the special private areas, lube is sometimes the best thing to use.

Consider showering or bathing together first. It’s really a fantastic start to romance and relaxation. And this is an exercise to explore new pleasures. So intercourse, in this particular case, is not the goal. Keep that in mind. We’re going for pure passion and pleasure. Try not to focus on climaxing at all. Or try not to focus on even bringing your partner to orgasm. What you’re going to do is enjoy the pleasurable experience, find out what the new sensations you can create are. And concentrate on finding the pleasures that work best for the both of you and then you can pull them into the rest of your passion play. In addition to building on the things you are experimenting with now together. So whatever your preferences are, a good part of the key is to vary the techniques. It’s great to know that you can bring yourself to orgasm in five minutes or less. But this time we’re going for a lot more relaxed, enjoyable experience. This isn’t a race. We’re looking for the best types of stimulation that feel the best. And the only way you can do that is to run through everything you can think of. Here are a few favorites to try on the ladies (remember to use a lube, a special massage oil or an edible product for even more fun) :

We are limiting this to a hands-on experiment so these are some specific instructions you can use to stimulate your female partner:

You’re going to get down to the vulva area (entire area between her legs), and start out just circling around the clitoris with your finger. Some women find the direct clitoral stimulation too intense, so starting this way is going to give you an idea. Circle one direction, and then circle the other direction around the clitoris. Then place one or two fingers directly onto the hood of the clitoris and move them into a circular motion, one direction, and then at some point, the opposite direction. Vary the speed, intensity and pressure for different sensations to find out what your partner likes best. Open the lips of the vulva apart a little bit more, and gently tap the hood of the clitoris. Vary the speed again.  And come from different directions, like come down from 12 o’clock, come up from 6 o’clock and in from 3 and 9. Tap, tap, tap, tap, tap… that’s a very pleasing sensation for a lot of women. Now getting a little bit more specific – what you’re going to do is gently place a thumb and index finger on either side of the clitoris, feel down toward the base of it and gently roll between your thumb and index finger. Do this very slowly and gently and increase the motion. Ladies, with all of these exercises, speak up when it feels good or say ‘move on’ or ‘let’s try something else’ and give some direction to your partner because this is unexplored territory. Learning new skills is going to be a fabulous thing for both of you. Be prepared to speak up and say what you like.

Here are a couple of more fun things to try.  Some of these things can be done with oral techniques also.  We’ll explore that later in another post. Draw each letter of the alphabet on the clitoris with a finger. Pay special attention to which letters feel the best.  And in the future when you get really good at this exercise, you can yell out the words that you want to be spelled. ‘WOW’ and ‘XRAY’ are popular favorites.  Don’t be afraid for some vaginal action too -it’s all in the vulva area. The most sensitive nerve endings are right at the opening of the vagina. A slow, gentle stimulation about an inch in the vagina is about all you really need unless directed otherwise. Or, if you want to try a little g-spot stimulation, you can read our g-spot stimulation tips.

Drawing all these techniques together and massaging your partner to the point of great pleasure, great enjoyment or orgasm is the goal.  Trying these techniques out on yourself first is a great idea to find out what you like so you can tell your partner.

Mutual masturbation is not the way to start masturbation with your partner. It is best to do that after you feel comfortable with your partner. Quite often it is the man masturbating first and the woman watching. The woman masturbating and letting the man watch usually comes later, because that is a huge step for most women. When you can truly do that and enjoy it, it opens up a whole new genre of new things that can be so much more fun. Massage is definitely the easiest way to work into it.

Erotic Massage Book

Erotic Massage Book

For the guys, we know they are a lot more comfortable with their self pleasure. So what us women need you to help us do is to explore you. Again, lube everything up. Lubing is always really good. Hold your hand in the typical “OK” position, make a circle with one hand and massage up and down the shaft. That’s a great way to start. Most ladies are comfortable with that. You can move the technique up a little bit and take both hands, lock the fingers together, and go up and down the shaft with both hands for a different feel. You can wiggle your fingers while you do that. While you’ve got your hands locked together, rotate your hands around a little bit as you go up and down – kind of like you’re rotating a stick to try to start a fire, but do it gently.  Ladies, you can consider using other body parts on the penis too, like you’re mouth or your breasts. Also, don’t ignore the rest of the ‘package’. The guys have the testicles, so a little extra stimulation on the scrotal sac, testicle area, and perineum – the area between the testicles and the anus, is also very well accepted and appreciated. A little finger tickle, a little more lubrication, a little extra stimulation, and maybe some more experimenting down the road can add to the fun and pleasure for the both of you.

Erotic Massage DVD

Erotic Massage DVD

Now these are just some suggestions to get you started. You could consider some additional instruction on erotic massage by reading the book:  Erotic Massage – the Touch of Love and/or by viewing the DVD: Erotic Massage – the Touch of Love.

Have fun experimenting!

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Dildos and Vibrators

March 6th, 2010 . 2 Comments »

Let’s explore the different types of Dildos & Vibrators…

vibrating dildo

Vibrating Dildo

Dildos can be made of hard or soft plastic, jelly or life-like materials called Futurotic, PleasureSkin or CyberSkin. They can be used like a penis during masturbation or for couple play. They can be stroked and rubbed all over the body, particularly in women, on the vulva and clitoris.

Anal plugs, also called butt plugs, are also a kind of dildo. Some people are comfortable with anal play. Most like to introduce standard size dildos into the anus, but we encourage starting small and working your way up. Anal plugs are usually shorter and thinner than regular dildos and, therefore, they can be more comfortably inserted. Anal plugs typically have a flared base. That flared base is going to prevent the plug from sliding inward. Toys that are designed for anal play are designed to not accidently slip inside because that would be very embarrassing and difficult to retrieve. Also, be sure to use lubrication when using anal products.

Vibrators also come in many different kinds, sizes, shapes and materials like dildos. Vibrators may use batteries, re-chargeable batteries, or they may plug into a wall outlet. They may have one speed or many speeds. They may do several functions at once or just one function. And they may or may not be waterproof. There are a lot of things you need to think about when choosing a toy. They come in lots of different shapes and sizes too. They can be very realistic-looking like artificial penis’ like the popular All American Whopper. There are some larger-than-life artificial penis’ like the Kong Huge Realistic Dildo. There is also g-spot stimulators – usually cylindrical and have a curved end to enable a woman or her partner to reach her gspot. (For more info on the G-Spot, read our G-spot guide)

Aphrodite Vibrator

Berman Aphrodite Vibrator

Ball-top vibrator massagers are usually hand-held wands topped with some type of vibrating ball and they’re about the size of a plum, usually, and they’re excellent for whole body massage. They can be used on the genitals, just be very careful because some of them can go at fairly high speeds. These are usually the type that plug into a wall outlet. A very popular body massager that was featured on Oprah by Dr. Laura Berman is the Aphrodite.

Bullets are a type of mini vibrator and they are called a bullet because they actually look kind of like a bullet. Usually they’re too small to contain the batteries in them, so most of them have a control unit that is wired to the bullet. Vibrating bullets are a good choice for travel. You can slip one inside your panties and get a secret little buzz in social situations and no one would know. Interesting, huh?

In addition to penis-shaped, or cylindrical-shaped toys, you can have double shaft vibes and dildos. They have the end of a penis on each side,

Butterfly Hands-Free Vibrator (AKA Flutter Frenzy)

Butterfly Hands-Free Vibrator (AKA Flutter Frenzy)

 or, a penis and an extra extrusion somewhere, often as a clitoral stimulator like a rabbit vibrator. Then there is the butterfly or vulva hands-free vibrator. Instead of any kind of cylinder, it actually looks like a little butterfly sitting externally on the genital area. It’s more of a  flattened shape and it’s really not meant for insertion. It just presses on the vulva and stimulates the whole area - which some women find extremely pleasurable. Some models come with straps that you can put around your thighs and hold them in place so you can use them for solo missions or with a partner.

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Fleshlight Sex Toy FAQ’s & Buyer’s Guide

February 19th, 2010 . No Comments »
Everything you wanted to know about the Fleshlight men’s sex toy:
In an era where vibrators have been championed as a means for female sexual freedom and enjoyment, male sex products have remained something of a dirty, unwanted cousin to their female counterparts. By providing a quality, discreet, and tasteful product, we hope to change these perceptions and help bring the topic of male sexuality into the light of legitimacy and reason. With AIDS, violence, and unwanted pregnancy at epidemic levels, there is reason to be cautious. The Fleshlight sex toy will provide an outlet to express your fantasies and impulses in a safe, but highly pleasurable environment!
» Why should I buy a Fleshlight?
» What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?
» Help! I’m a first time buyer, what should I order?
» Which insert is right for me?
» Which insert best simulates real sex?
» I am a virgin. What do you recommend?
» I am uncircumcised. What do you recommend?
» What is the difference between the Fleshlights?
- Original
- Speed Bump
- Stamina Training Unit
- Super Ribbed
- Super Tight
- Ultra Tight
- Wonder Wave
- Vortex
- Lotus

» Where can I buy a Fleshlight?

    Why should I buy a Fleshlight?
    Top five reasons:
Top 5 1. You’re in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires.
2. Nothing is closer to the real thing. The soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man.
3. Improve stamina & performance. Whether you’re a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation.
4. Practice safe sex. The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you’re having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality.
5. Lifetime of pleasure. With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners.
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  •  What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?
  • Fleshlight dimensions:
    The Fleshlight case is approximately 10 inches (254 mm) in length and 4 inches (102 mm) in diameter at the larger end and 2-1/2 inches (63 mm) at the smaller end. The Fleshlight case is offered in black, blue, pearl, silver, white and clear.
  • Canal diameters and textures:
    Original 3/4 inch (19 mm) smooth
    Speed Bump 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
    Stamina Training Unit 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
    Super Ribbed 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
    Super Tight 1/2 inch (13 mm) smooth
    Wonder Wave 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
    Ultra Tight 1/4 inch (10 mm) smooth
    Vortex 1/4-3/4 inch (10-19mm) textured
    Lotus (Standard FLG Texture) 1/2 inch (13 mm) textured
    Twista (Tera Patrick Exclusive) 1-1/4 inch (25-10mm) textured

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  •  Help! I’m a first time buyer, what should I order?

    • With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.

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  •  Which insert is right for me?
  • This is, without a doubt, the most frequently asked question. Unfortunately there is no easy answer. Please consider several important factors:
  • Penis length/girth:
    When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience. Ranked from most tight to least tight: Ultra Tight, Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original. Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
    Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can
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  • Your color options:

    The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an easy decision, just choose whatever color suits you best. When you choose the ice color, you are really selecting ‘no color’. The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest.
    • Fleshlight Orifices

    Fleshlight Orifices

    Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The non-descript is ideal for users that travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family members/roomates discovering their sex toy. The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.

    Fleshlight sensations diagram

    Fleshlight Sensations

    The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide. Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on sales records and customer testimonials. Explore the entire product line and post your reviews for each product along the way!
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  •  Which insert best simulates real sex?
  • There is something for everyone
    With a variety of inserts and textures, it is possible to simulate a variety of sex methods. Below is a listing of the most favored match-ups:
    Vaginal Sex: Wonder Wave Lady
    Anal Sex: Super Tight Butt
    Oral Sex: Super Ribbed Mouth
    Most Intense: Super Ribbed Butt
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  • I am a virgin. What do you recommend?
  • Advice for the new recruits
    The Fleshlight is a great place to start and with over 1,000,000 sold, you are certainly not alone. We all started as virgins at one point. Making the transition from hand to Fleshlight will feel strange, but it’s one step closer to having real sex. Use the Fleshlight as a means of practicing and familiarizing yourself to the act of intercourse. When the opportunity arises for real sex, you will be able to enjoy it more and worry less. With enough practice you will be able to last longer during sex. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up too quickly. It takes time to learn new tricks and get comfortable with it. The closest to the real thing you will get is the Wonder Wave Pink Lady. The vagina orifice is modeled off of a real vagina, and the inside waves give an added sensation. Make sure to use plenty of lube and warm your Fleshlight in warm water before use. Try different positions and some hands-free methods to further simulate real sex as much as possible.
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  •  I am uncircumcised. What do you recommend?
  • Advice for the uncut man
    Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with little to no problems at all. While using an adequate amount of lubricant is crucial for everyone, uncut men have stressed the importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Uncut men tend to favor the STU and the Original Fleshlights. The STU is favored because it’s texture is less pronounced and it feels gentler on the foreskin, especially on the way out. The Original is equally favored because it is completely smooth and the foreskin has less to get caught-up on. It’s argued that the movement of the foreskin on the penis head is more sexually arousing than textures and requires less manual stimulation. Some uncut men have suggested the use of bands/rings or even a condom to keep the foreskin tightly pulled back. While this is suggested by some, this is certainly not necessary and use of a condom is never required.
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  • What is the difference between the Fleshlights?
  • Original
    This is the insert that started it all! The Original Fleshlight canal is 3/4″ (19 mm) diameter and untextured. By untextured we mean smooth. Due to it liberal size, well-endowed and uncircumcised men tend to prefer this insert. If you have aggressively masturbated with your hand for a long time, then you might have noticed a decrease in penis sensitivity. The Original is a great way to transition away from your hand and regain penis sensitivity.
  • Sex In A Can (SIAC)
     The Sex In A Can is a lighter, smaller version of the Fleshlight that makes for easy carrying and storing. The inside canal is a 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter and textured similar to the Wonder Wave, with the waves being fatter and slightly more separated. This is a good change for the frequent user who is well rehearsed with the full size Fleshlight. Not only is the insert tighter, but the orifice is smaller too. The SIAC can easily be controlled with just one hand and it’s decreased weight makes it easier to maneuver and hold for long periods of time. The whole can itself measures about 7 inches (178 mm) in length, compared to the normal 10 inch (254 mm) Fleshlight case. The size of the SIAC makes it favored by less endowed men. An additional difference is that the bottom of the can has a hole in it, not a screw on cap. You can regulate the suction easily by covering it with your finger.

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  • Speed Bump
    The Speed Bump is more intense than the Wonder Wave, but less than the Super Ribbed. The texture of the Speed Bump is a repeating pattern of small bumps all evenly spaced along the length of the 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter canal. This gives the user a consistent sensation of dozens of tiny tips gently massaging your penis as you glide in and out. The added height of the bump makes it the tightest of the textured inserts, measuring slightly under 1/2″ (13 mm). Jokingly referred to by our users as the “Tunnel of Love”.
  • Stamina Training Unit
    Often compared to the Speed Bump, which also has a 1/2″ canal diameter, the STU is designed to provide an extremely pleasurable and challenging venue for those seeking to practice techniques and improve sexual stamina. As you enter the STU you will notice the smooth pillowlike texture massaging your penis, however as you get closer to the point of no return (orgasm)your penis naturally expands increasing the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity. As the sensation increases, you can train yourself to resist the urge to orgasm or allow the pleasure to take over. The purpose of providing this challenge is to allow you to learn to recognize when you are going to orgasm and provide experience in delaying the process should you desire. The Speed Bump in contrast is an extreme sensation throughout the whole use, right from the start. The STU is also reported to feel a lot gentler than the enchanced inserts on uncut men, especially on the way out. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling like “little fingers” tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense way. The STU canal is 1/2″ (13 mm) and has a completely unique texture. Currently not available separate from the case, you may however swap out other inserts into the case.
  • Super Ribbed
    This insert is as intense as it gets! The 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter canal is textured for maximum stimulation. Where the other inserts leave space between the textures, this insert features dozens of tightly packed soft ribs to keep your penis continuously stimulated. Be careful to not over lube this insert or you will lose the textured intensity.
  • Super Tight
    When it comes to masturbating with the Fleshlight, some users demand realism while others prioritize sensation. The Super Tight appeals to the men seeking realism. The Super Tight insert is a smooth, untextured 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter canal that is described as feeling “velvety smooth”. The difference between the Super Tight and the Original Fleshlight is the decreased canal diameter. The Super Tight diameter is the same as the Speed Bump, Wonder Wave, and Super Ribbed, with the slight difference that the canal diameter is consistent from beginning to end, while the other three are tapered from larger to smaller. This also adds to the realism of the product when it comes to simulating sex. The Super Tight is most often paired up with the Butt orifice and used to simulate anal sex.
  • Ultra Tight
    Man, that’s tight! Very similar to the Super Tight for the same reasons mentioned above, but an even tighter canal. The Ultra Tight canal is 1/4″ (10 mm) diameter and untextured. Meant for the men who like the tightest sex penetration, but also preferred by men who have below average girth. But don’t let the tight diameter fool you! Average sized men will have no problem, due to the extra stretchy, soft material used on this and all other Fleshlights. The material will expand during insertion as long as you remember to use plenty of lubrication.
  • Wonder Wave
    The first enhanced insert ever released, the Wonder Wave is the crowd favorite. The Wonder Wave canal diameter is 1/2″ (13 mm) and textured with raised rings spaced approximately 1/2″ (13 mm) apart. Less intense than the Super Ribbed and Speed Bump, the Wonder Wave was designed to most closely simulate the sensation of a woman’s vagina. The Wonder Wave is perfect when paired up with the Lady orifice. There is a learning curve with the Wonder Wave and it sometimes takes a few sessions before some will truly enjoy it. The sensation of the Wonder Wave alternates between highs and lows, sending stimulating waves while pressing in and pulling out. That’s how the insert got it’s name, because it’s a wave of pleasure that comes and goes. Long, slow strokes is described as the best way to use the Wonder Wave. It has also been suggested to use the Wonder Wave with the cap totally off or as little suction as possible.
  • Vortex
    The first of a new class of insert sleeves that feature not only incredibly stimulating textures, but also variance in canal diameter, the four spiraled chambers of the Vortex will bring you to dizzying pleasure. After over a year in development, this insert was designed to create a mesmerizing combination of suction, texture, and an unforgettable squeeze as you pass through each pleasure chamber. Already ranked as one of our most enjoyable inserts, whether you are an experienced customer or new to Fleshlight, the vortex will blow away your expectations.
  • Lotus
    In designing the Lotus texture, we had one goal in mind; to create the absolute most realistic vaginal intercourse sensation possible. The Lotus begins with our smooth ultra tight entry, then blossoms into a slightly wider, more comfortable canal, exactly like its human counterpart. An inverted node awaits a few inches inside, further adding to the complex fantasy as it simulates the subtle sensation of brushing the cervix. As a finale, four tightly spaced chambers await you at the end of the insert, built to provide the most sensitive part of your member with continued intense sensations. If you want to know what its like to have sex with your fantasy girl, nothing will bring you closer than the Lotus!

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    Dr. Oz Show Features Dr. Laura Berman’s Sex Toys

    February 8th, 2010 . 1 Comment »
    Dr. Laura Berman on the Dr. Oz Show

    Dr. Laura Berman on the Dr. Oz Show

    The Dr. Oz show recently had a show on how to orgasm over 40. The famous sex therapist, Dr. Laura Berman, was on the show to aid in the discussion.  She explained that one of the ways for all women to achieve a more intense orgasm is to strengthen the pelvic muscles (sometimes called Kegal muscles). As women age and have children, the pelvic muscles get stretched. Dr. Berman displayed 2 of the pelvic exerciser products from her intimate accesories line of sex toys. The basic pelvic exerciser is for beginners who are just starting to strengthen their pelvic muscles. The advanced pelvic exerciser is weighted and allows for advancement as the kegals are strengthened. Strong kegal muscles allow for stronger orgasms as these muscles are an integral part of the muscle contractions involved in an orgasm.

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