Vibrating Dildo

Dildos can be made of hard or soft plastic, jelly or life-like materials called Futurotic, PleasureSkin or CyberSkin. They can be used like a penis during masturbation or for couple play. They can be stroked and rubbed all over the body, particularly in women, on the vulva and clitoris.

Anal plugs, also called butt plugs, are also a kind of dildo. Some people are comfortable with anal play. Most like to introduce standard size dildos into the anus, but we encourage starting small and working your way up. Anal plugs are usually shorter and thinner than regular dildos and, therefore, they can be more comfortably inserted. Anal plugs typically have a flared base. That flared base is going to prevent the plug from sliding inward. Toys that are designed for anal play are designed to not accidently slip inside because that would be very embarrassing and difficult to retrieve. Also, be sure to use lubrication when using anal products.

Vibrators also come in many different kinds, sizes, shapes and materials like dildos. Vibrators may use batteries, re-chargeable batteries, or they may plug into a wall outlet. They may have one speed or many speeds. They may do several functions at once or just one function. And they may or may not be waterproof. There are a lot of things you need to think about when choosing a toy. They come in lots of different shapes and sizes too. They can be very realistic-looking like artificial penis’ like the popular All American Whopper. There are some larger-than-life artificial penis’ like the Kong Huge Realistic Dildo. There is also g-spot stimulators – usually cylindrical and have a curved end to enable a woman or her partner to reach her gspot. (For more info on the G-Spot, read our G-spot guide)

Berman Aphrodite Vibrator

Ball-top vibrator massagers are usually hand-held wands topped with some type of vibrating ball and they’re about the size of a plum, usually, and they’re excellent for whole body massage. They can be used on the genitals, just be very careful because some of them can go at fairly high speeds. These are usually the type that plug into a wall outlet. A very popular body massager that was featured on Oprah by Dr. Laura Berman is the Aphrodite.

Bullets are a type of mini vibrator and they are called a bullet because they actually look kind of like a bullet. Usually they’re too small to contain the batteries in them, so most of them have a control unit that is wired to the bullet. Vibrating bullets are a good choice for travel. You can slip one inside your panties and get a secret little buzz in social situations and no one would know. Interesting, huh?

In addition to penis-shaped, or cylindrical-shaped toys, you can have double shaft vibes and dildos. They have the end of a penis on each side,

Butterfly Hands-Free Vibrator (AKA Flutter Frenzy)

 or, a penis and an extra extrusion somewhere, often as a clitoral stimulator like a rabbit vibrator. Then there is the butterfly or vulva hands-free vibrator. Instead of any kind of cylinder, it actually looks like a little butterfly sitting externally on the genital area. It’s more of a  flattened shape and it’s really not meant for insertion. It just presses on the vulva and stimulates the whole area - which some women find extremely pleasurable. Some models come with straps that you can put around your thighs and hold them in place so you can use them for solo missions or with a partner.

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» Where can I buy a Fleshlight?

1. You’re in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires. 2. Nothing is closer to the real thing. The soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man. 3. Improve stamina & performance. Whether you’re a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation. 4. Practice safe sex. The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you’re having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality. 5. Lifetime of pleasure. With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners. [top]

With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.

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Penis length/girth:
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience. Ranked from most tight to least tight: Ultra Tight, Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original. Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can
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Your color options:

The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an easy decision, just choose whatever color suits you best. When you choose the ice color, you are really selecting ‘no color’. The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest.

Fleshlight Orifices

Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The non-descript is ideal for users that travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family members/roomates discovering their sex toy. The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.

Fleshlight Sensations

The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide. Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on sales records and customer testimonials. Explore the entire product line and post your reviews for each product along the way!
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Sex In A Can (SIAC)
The Sex In A Can is a lighter, smaller version of the Fleshlight that makes for easy carrying and storing. The inside canal is a 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter and textured similar to the Wonder Wave, with the waves being fatter and slightly more separated. This is a good change for the frequent user who is well rehearsed with the full size Fleshlight. Not only is the insert tighter, but the orifice is smaller too. The SIAC can easily be controlled with just one hand and it’s decreased weight makes it easier to maneuver and hold for long periods of time. The whole can itself measures about 7 inches (178 mm) in length, compared to the normal 10 inch (254 mm) Fleshlight case. The size of the SIAC makes it favored by less endowed men. An additional difference is that the bottom of the can has a hole in it, not a screw on cap. You can regulate the suction easily by covering it with your finger.

Where can I buy a Fleshlight?

Original Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Mouth – Original
• Fleshlight Butt – Original
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Original
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Original
• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Original
• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Bottom – Original

Speed Bump Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Sleeve – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Ice Jack Ass – Speed Bump
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Speed Bump

Stamina Training Units:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit
• Fleshlight Pink Endurance Jack Ass

Super Ribbed Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Fleshjack Pink Jack Ass – Super Ribbed
• Fleshlight Pink Lady – Super Ribbed

Wonder Wave Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Pink Lady Sleeve – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Ice Lady – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Ice Mouth – Wonder Wave
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Ice Mouth – Wonder Wave

Vortex Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Fleshjack Pink Jack Ass – Vortex
• Fleshlight Pink Lady – Vortex
• Fleshlight Pink Mouth – Vortex

Lotus Fleshlights:

• Teagon Presley Fleshlight
• Eva Angelina Fleshlight
• Jesse Jane Fleshlight
• Riley Steel Fleshlight
• Lia 19 Fleshlight
• Tera Patrick Fleshlight – Lotus

Twista Fleshlights:

• Tera Patrick Fleshlight – Twista

Touch Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Touch
• Fleshlight Fleshjack Vibro Pink Bottom – Touch

Cyclone Fleshlights:

• Fleshlight Vibro Pink Lady – Cyclone

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Dr. Laura Berman on the Dr. Oz Show

The Dr. Oz show recently had a show on how to orgasm over 40. The famous sex therapist, Dr. Laura Berman, was on the show to aid in the discussion.  She explained that one of the ways for all women to achieve a more intense orgasm is to strengthen the pelvic muscles (sometimes called Kegal muscles). As women age and have children, the pelvic muscles get stretched. Dr. Berman displayed 2 of the pelvic exerciser products from her intimate accesories line of sex toys. The basic pelvic exerciser is for beginners who are just starting to strengthen their pelvic muscles. The advanced pelvic exerciser is weighted and allows for advancement as the kegals are strengthened. Strong kegal muscles allow for stronger orgasms as these muscles are an integral part of the muscle contractions involved in an orgasm.

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LELO Gigi Luxury G-Spot Vibrator

GSpot Vibrators can help achieve an orgasm and female ejaculation

What is Female Ejaculation?

There has only been a small amount of research on female ejaculation so nothing is definitive. We have gathered everything together that we can find in order to give our readers a compilation of information about the female ejaculation.

The female ejaculate is the fluid that is pushed out during an orgasm. There are many theories on why it happens. Some think the fluid originates in the bladder while others think it originates in the periurethral or Skene’s glands which are located underneath the gspot. All of these areas are in close proximity and involved during sexual arousal.

There are two different types of female sexual response fluids. One is a vaginal fluid that comes out when women are aroused and it is for lubrication during intercourse. It oozes out of the vaginal walls and is a milky color, a little bit thicker, and it will dry a white color. You’ve probably noticed this fluid before. It is a perfectly normal fluid that is used to lubricate.

Female ejaculate is less commonly seen. This is not because women aren’t capabable, but due to the lack of understanding and agreement on how and why it happens. Here is what we have found: It is definitely a different liquid than urine. It’s clear in color, sweetly scented, tastes sweet and is a very light texture.

Female ejaculate can come out with great force and in large quantities – up to a couple of cups. People have studied this and reported that the color, smell, consistency and taste does vary from time to time. It is a milder, sweeter scent and taste. It contains sugar (glucose) in a much higher level than urine would contain. It also has an enzyme in it that is similar to the prostate enzyme in men. The female ejaculate is similar to male ejaculate without the semen – you can think of it that way. A lot of people compare the female Skene’s glands to the male prostate. So the female ejaculation fluid is a unique substance that is not like the heavy/thicker fluid that comes from the vaginal walls.

Where does the female ejaculate come from? Researcher’s best guess is it comes from the area around the urethra opening called the urethral sponge. But it can be accessed from inside and outside so people aren’t exactly sure. There’s a lot of debate on where it exactly originates – from the bladder, from the urethral sponge, Skene’s glands or a combination of more than one. But all these areas are in close proximity so it is hard to tell where is originates.

How can it hold so much fluid? The size of that area is small, so the likelihood of if holding a couple of cups of fluids isn’t very high. Researchers think that the glands may have the capacity to refill and empty rapidly. And this would explain how a gspot orgasm works. The longer the women’s orgasm, the more fluid she would ejaculate which is often the case. So if this is true, it’s probably a considerable amount of fluid that isn’t coming from the bladder at all.

The urethra, the vulva, the vagina and other areas fill with blood during sexual arousal. The same thing happens with the male organs in a guy. The tissue gets firmer when it is filled with blood like a male hard-on. So if you use some specific gspot masturbation techniques, you can practice having a gspot orgasm and learn how to ejaculate during the orgasm. It’s clear that a woman doesn’t really have to work hard once she understand how it works – to really expel the fluid and have that g-spot orgasm. The rhythmic pressure on the gspot is what it takes. Using a gspot vibrator usually makes it easier to achieve a gspot orgasm. Remember, the amount of fluid released during an orgasm can vary from medium amounts to large amounts so know that it is normal to release a lot of fluid.

For more information on the gspot orgasm and gspot masturbation techniques, please see our previous gspot stimulation guide.

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LELO Ina Vibrator

LELO has released it’s newest high-quality pleasure product – Ina.

INA is for the woman who wants it all – a sleek and stylish dual-action vibrator that reaches out seamlessly to the most erogenous zones. Through her finely-tuned and body-oriented design, she promises maximum intensity with the minimum of fuss. There is also a secret hiding among INA’s eight variable stimulation modes; made possible by two individual motors, located in each pleasure point, INA’s ‘Circular Mode’ allows one sensual area to heighten to intensity while the level of vibrations is restricted elsewhere. Pleasure is then transferred alternately to create a sense of movement within, tantalizing her user before delivering the most prolonged feelings of satisfaction, time and time again.

As with all pleasure objects by LELO, INA is designed to offer total peace of mind in whatever situations arise. Made with FDA-approved and phthalate-free PC-ABS/ silicone, she delivers up to 4 hours of near-silent vibrations after just a 2-hour charge. Speed and intensity are easily controllable via her intuitive interface dial, while these functions are fully lockable to ensure discreet transportation at all times. Additionally, INA comes presented in an elegant gift box and luxury satin pouch for appropriate storage, complete with charger, user manual and a full 1-year LELO warranty.

If you’re new to the LELO company and it’s products, let us tell you a little about them. LELO is a company that prides itself on creating pleasure objects that are manufactured with the highest quality materials and engineering with designs inspired by the female form. Every component is tested, every product is 100% quality assured, every piece of lettering or packaging is only to the highest standards. And (where possible) bio-degradable packaging materials are being used to build on the environmental benefits of our rechargeable battery systems. All products are non-toxic, phthalate-free, and comply with CE and RoHs standards. Design and engineering of the highest quality are always a given with LELO products, because LELO’s truest passion is for giving pleasure.

Buy the LELO Ina at YourAdultToyStore.com

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GSpot Diagram

The vaginal area has many pleasure spots that can be sensitized.  The GSpot is one that is wildly known, but often mysterious.  The mysterious GSpot is located on the front wall of the vaginal cavity. It isn’t necessarily directly in the middle, because all women are different and therefore each woman’s GSpot is uniquely situated.   

The GSpot is a pressure point so you need to use firm pressure when stimulating it.  The GSpot is embedded in the front vaginal wall, is about the size of a dime, and consists of rigid, firm tissue. It is technically called the urethral sponge and is like the tissue that is inside the penis.  When this tissue gets aroused, it grows.   

Insert 2 fingers and make a 'come here' motion

Ladies, to locate the female GSpot while lying on your back, insert a finger or 2 (with lube) and stroke the upper wall like you’re trying to point to the back side of your belly button from inside your vagina.  Make a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers to stimulate the area over and over with pressure. One or two fingers might not do it for you because some women like a full feeling.  Also, some GSpots are off to one side or the other so feel around to find what gives you the maximum stimulation.   

If you’re looking to achieve a GSpot orgasm through g-spot stimulation alone, it can be difficult especially when you’re new.  Don’t get discouraged, it might take some time.  For most women, it works better with external stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones while stimulating the GSpot.  Some sex toys are made especially for GSpot stimulation.   

Butterfly G Bliss GSpot Rabbit Vibrator

Common GSpot massagers are cylindrical shaped with a curved tip.  This special shape is designed to help apply firm steady pressure like the ‘come here’ motion over and over. 

Chubby G (AKA Nubby G Aqua)

One example of a GSpot vibrator is named the Chubby G (or Nubby G Aqua).  If you would like to try simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation you should try Da’ Bomb or a GSpot rabbit vibrator like the grrl toyz Butterfly G Bliss. For a different adventure in gpot stimulation, try a glass GSpot adult toy like the Cyberglass Four Way G Swirl.  Couples will enjoy the current hottest selling sex toy  – the We-Vibe II.  It provides simultaneous clitoral and GSpot stimulation and is designed to be worn by the woman during sex.  Also, Intimate Organics makes a GSpot gel that is formulated to increase the size and sensitivity of the GSpot and make it easy to find and stimulate.

Cyberglass Four Way G Swirl Glass Dildo

If you would like to try solo GSpot masturbation, start by getting comfortable, relaxing your mind and letting it wander.  When you’re in an uninhibited state, apply lube and start to engage in manual stimulation.  When you reach a point of heightened state of sexual arousal, insert your GSpot adult toy with the curve pointing upward and experiment with different strokes and different kinds of pressure along the front vaginal wall. You can apply a little extra pressure or less pressure, firmer or quicker to experiment and get familiar with this erogenous zone.  Thrusting in and out is not really for GSpot stimulation; you mainly just insert the toy and move it around while it’s there.   

The Complete Manual Of Sexual Positions Book

For GSpot stimulation during sex with your partner, there are some sexual positions that stimulate the GSpot more than others.  The common ‘missionary style’ where the woman is laying on her back and the man is on top face-to-face, does not hit the GSpot as well as other positions.  One of the best positions for this type of stimulation is from behind or commonly called ‘doggy style’.   

Note: Don’t be alarmed if you feel the urge to urinate.  It’s perfectly normal to feel like you have to urinate when you are about to have a gpot orgasm.  Before GSpot masturbation, make sure you empty your bladder that way you’ll know that you’re not passing urine when you feel you have the urge.  In order to have a GSpot orgasm you need to get past that point – so relax and let go.  Also, be aware that a fluid can be released during GSpot orgasm and GSpot stimulation.  But it’s not urine, it’s known as female ejaculation.

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PurEcstasy

Tip 1:  When you get up in the morning, apply a stimulating gel like PurEcstasy for an erotic tingle to remind you and get you ready for the exciting evening ahead.  When you get dressed for the night, apply a little Pure Instinct Sexual Attraction Cologne in your cleavage and behind your ears to entice your partner with powerful pheromones which will stimulate sexual appeal and increase confidence.  Make sure to apply PurEcstasy again before the ‘big event’.  

Rose Petal Seductions

Tip 2:  Make a trail of Rose Petal Seductions to your bed or fireplace.  Pair the seduction petals for sensual, romantic tips for you and your lover to enhance the beginning of foreplay.  Add real or silk rose petals for added ambiance.        

Milk Chocolate Paint

Tip 3:  The most delicious dessert after any romantic dinner is each other… Have your lover dust your body with an edible body dust like Touch of Honey. Use the maribou feather that is included with the Honey Dust to sensually dust each other’s bodies then have fun licking it all off. Then use edible chocolate body paint to write erotic messages on each other’s chest, stomach, arms and thighs. Foreplay becomes a tasty treat with these edible delights.      

We-Vibe ll

 

Tip 4:  Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love, romance and your relationship. Finally, to culminate this memorable evening, we recommend trying a popular new couple’s toy called the We-Vibe II.  Enjoy each other to the fullest and treat every day like Valentine’s Day.     

      

 

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NORTH HOLLYWOOD, Calif. — A collection of adult products by novelty manufacturer Doc Johnson is slated to appear on the season finale of “Rules of Engagement,” airing Monday on CBS at 9:30 p.m. Jordan Byrnes, part of Doc Johnson’s publicity team at Fifteen Minutes PR, told XBIZ that the program’s set designer contacted the team and was familiar with the brand’s variety of product and fast-turnaround. “She knew that Doc had a variety of product and the capability to deliver on short notice,” Byrnes said. “We supplied an entire store’s worth of product — wall displays, shelf displays, point-of-purchase displays. We looked at it from a branding point-of-view, and they looked at it from colorful visual standpoint.” Byrnes said almost every scene of the episode, entitled “Sex Toy Story,” involves sex toys, and much of the show’s comedy revolves the characters’ interaction with vibrators. The female characters host a sex-toy party, and the cast heads to an adult shop to purchase items for the event. Byrnes said the show was originally supposed to air as episode eight, but the final cut was so funny, the network decided to hold it and make it the season finale. “This is a testament to the fact that that the cliché taboo of adult novelty is slowly but surely being lifted,” Byrnes said. “This is not late-night HBO, it’s not pay cable, this is network TV. This is prime time.” Chad Braverman, Doc Johnson’s director of product development and licensing, told XBIZ that these kinds of branding opportunities are exactly the types he and Fifteen Minutes seek in mainstream entertainment. “It’s a constant goal to introduce our product to the mainstream masses, and using a vehicle like primetime network TV is a home run for us,” Braverman said. “This, along with our future TV and film collaborations, is a perfect example of the continually disappearing taboo attached to our industry.”

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