G-Spot stimulation is a great source of pleasure for some women and for others it is a new, unexplored, pleasure spot. Here you’ll find some techniques, new ideas and other tricks to help you with this erogenous area if is new to you. Don’t be intimidated, it just takes practice to find what works for you. But you’ll find the extra effort is well worth your time!
GSpot Diagram
The vaginal area has many pleasure spots that can be sensitized. The GSpot is one that is wildly known, but often mysterious. The mysterious GSpot is located on the front wall of the vaginal cavity. It isn’t necessarily directly in the middle, because all women are different and therefore each woman’s GSpot is uniquely situated.
The GSpot is a pressure point so you need to use firm pressure when stimulating it. The GSpot is embedded in the front vaginal wall, is about the size of a dime, and consists of rigid, firm tissue. It is technically called the urethral sponge and is like the tissue that is inside the penis. When this tissue gets aroused, it grows.
Insert 2 fingers and make a 'come here' motion
Ladies, to locate the female GSpot while lying on your back, insert a finger or 2 (with lube) and stroke the upper wall like you’re trying to point to the back side of your belly button from inside your vagina. Make a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers to stimulate the area over and over with pressure. One or two fingers might not do it for you because some women like a full feeling. Also, some GSpots are off to one side or the other so feel around to find what gives you the maximum stimulation.
If you’re looking to achieve a GSpot orgasm through g-spot stimulation alone, it can be difficult especially when you’re new. Don’t get discouraged, it might take some time. For most women, it works better with external stimulation of the clitoris or other erogenous zones while stimulating the GSpot. Some sex toys are made especially for GSpot stimulation.
Butterfly G Bliss GSpot Rabbit Vibrator
Common GSpot massagers are cylindrical shaped with a curved tip. This special shape is designed to help apply firm steady pressure like the ‘come here’ motion over and over.
Chubby G (AKA Nubby G Aqua)
One example of a GSpot vibrator is named the Chubby G (or Nubby G Aqua). If you would like to try simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation you should try Da’ Bomb or a GSpot rabbit vibrator like the grrl toyz Butterfly G Bliss. For a different adventure in gpot stimulation, try a glass GSpot adult toy like the Cyberglass Four Way G Swirl. Couples will enjoy the current hottest selling sex toy – the We-Vibe II. It provides simultaneous clitoral and GSpot stimulation and is designed to be worn by the woman during sex. Also, Intimate Organics makes a GSpot gel that is formulated to increase the size and sensitivity of the GSpot and make it easy to find and stimulate.
Cyberglass Four Way G Swirl Glass Dildo
If you would like to try solo GSpot masturbation, start by getting comfortable, relaxing your mind and letting it wander. When you’re in an uninhibited state, apply lube and start to engage in manual stimulation. When you reach a point of heightened state of sexual arousal, insert your GSpot adult toy with the curve pointing upward and experiment with different strokes and different kinds of pressure along the front vaginal wall. You can apply a little extra pressure or less pressure, firmer or quicker to experiment and get familiar with this erogenous zone. Thrusting in and out is not really for GSpot stimulation; you mainly just insert the toy and move it around while it’s there.
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For GSpot stimulation during sex with your partner, there are some sexual positions that stimulate the GSpot more than others. The common ‘missionary style’ where the woman is laying on her back and the man is on top face-to-face, does not hit the GSpot as well as other positions. One of the best positions for this type of stimulation is from behind or commonly called ‘doggy style’.
Note: Don’t be alarmed if you feel the urge to urinate. It’s perfectly normal to feel like you have to urinate when you are about to have a gpot orgasm. Before GSpot masturbation, make sure you empty your bladder that way you’ll know that you’re not passing urine when you feel you have the urge. In order to have a GSpot orgasm you need to get past that point – so relax and let go. Also, be aware that a fluid can be released during GSpot orgasm and GSpot stimulation. But it’s not urine, it’s known as female ejaculation.
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